start again today no. 14: the release ratio, the magic of chess ♜, commit fully or not at all, no mention of the superbowl 🏈

Hey 👋🏽,

Superheroes exist.

The belief solidified last night, 2m after pouring boiling hot water for my-2nd-cup-of-coffee on my left hand. The shock, dismay at another coffee disaster and string of expletives that followed were eclipsed by:

dah dah dah DAH!

My 4.5yo bellowed then bounded down the stairs, appearing in the doorway of our kitchen in his Incredibles costume. 

Incredibles to the rescue!

We bought the costume before Oliver claimed a character; it was enough to just be “an Incredible”. My Incredible saved the day with a smile, a hug, and a refrain of “Don’t touch hot water, that’s not good” that lasted through the evening. 

Before bed I thanked him as we reflected on the best and worst parts of our day. He snuggled close:

I feel like I have super powers. But, I can’t save the city.

Last week, we lost a superhero. Super implies big, but super is arrived at through thousands of small extraordinary acts and moments of deep connection. Super: good stuff that forces you to take pause, good stuff that carves out a place in your heart and memory.

Bad times bring out the best in each of us. With the departure of Kobe and other superheroes we’re each reminded to see good, be good, step up, carry the cape. It’s enough to be “an Incredible.”

Here are a few things I enjoyed this week:


🧠 Release ratio: how to make use of everything you know More to That, 9m

Constantly consuming information can fool you into thinking that knowledge acquisition is the end goal. This illustrated article explains how to balance consumption and creation to inspire yourself and others to take action.

More on creating:

consume less, create more (8m)

❤️ the magic of chess It’s Nice That, 6m

I recovered from the sadness of a delayed viewing of Kobe’s Beethoven backed Oscar winning short film Dear Basketball with hope from the next generation of athletes.

Jenny Schweitzer Bell’s short explores chess through the insightful and encouraging eyes of elementary school age champions. 

You need bravery to play chess. 

🚶🏽‍♀️commit fully or not at all, Zen Habits, 2m

Most of us are only partly committed. Zen Habits explains why, and how to commit (or let go!) without guilt or shame.

More on commitment:


I see you, I love you, don’t be limited by other people’s limited imaginations this Black History month.

H

P.S. on my website this week: to discover your best ideas, appreciate your worst 2m

P.P.S. last week’s newsletter, in case you missed it.